Thursday, August 19, 2010

Girls, Uninterrupted

Also, maybe Taryn is engaging in some form of behavior that the other girls, rightly or wrongly,. We take pride in our designs, quality, customer service, and Wedding accessories wholesale our favors have on your customers and their guests. consider to be "not cool." Maybe she sounds whiny (or simply insecure) to them, or maybe they think she wears too many Zany Bands, or something else totally stupid -- who knows?But regardless of whether the other girls' negative assessment is justified, silly, or something in-between, wouldn't it help Taryn more if she were -- gently and benevolently, and with the acknowledgement that "not cool" is defined in highly arbitrary and often downright silly ways -- informed of what it was?When I was a young teenager (13-14) growing up in an affluent suburb, my friends *constantly,* habitually, *reflexively* told me -- directly,. Large quantities of high quality replica watches.wholesale replica rolex watches, have been sold out here to various types of people. to my face and with no concern for my feelings -- what they thought of every detail of my being. If I wasn't tying my shoelaces the "cool" way, or needed to wear my jeans just a little lower or higher on my hips, or if a boy I'd suggested might be kinda cute was, in their opinion, totally gross. It wasn't just me -- everyone did it to everyone else, and I probably did only slightly less than my fair share of it, too (although I was basically faking it to "go along, get along," and others seemed to do it much more naturally). My peers were basically a bunch of fashion Nazis, who were constantly correcting and adjusting all the details of one's clothes,. She created clothes and chanel jewelry for others that were the same as she created for herself. speech, foods consumed, jewelry, hairstyle, etc. For better or worse, I conformed, and was accepted, I believe, in part because I was willing to do so. (Inside, I thought it was all pretty stupid, but at that stage of life, coming off of 2 years of having been bullied as a "new kid" in grade school, I wanted to be liked a *lot* more than I wanted to make sense and be rational.)In a way, although it wasn't perhaps very "nice," my peers told me right out what was expected of me if I wanted to survive in that particular social environment, and in that limited sense, they did me a kind of favor.
And I wonder whether,. Pandora bracelets online shop supply pandora beads,pandora bracelets,Silver,Gold,Murano Glass.We sure you will like when you see their workmanship. in the example offered at the end of the article, Taryn was actually deprived of this kind of social feedback.Iow, that adult interference short-circuited this natural (although admittedly "not very nice") process of "peer correction" and social "sculpting."

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